Thursday, July 9, 2009
LOL. / 12:35 AM
Hello to everyone who said that my blog is dead. It isn't. Haha.
Anyway, I just want to share something that I thought was very meaningful. This was what I learnt Rev. Dr. A.R. Bernard. Awesome really.
Every Relationship begins with a "Revelation".
With that "Revelation" comes "Inspiration".
Which brings about something called the "Expulsive power of a new attraction".
Just in case you do not know what I am talking about, this expulsive power of a new attraction can refer to many things in our lives. For example, the excitement one gets after buying a new phone, or a new girl/ guy that one has taken a liking to.
What happens here is that you are very attracted to this new thing or object or whatever it is.
It is like what Rev. said, you are always looking at it, taking care of it etc.
The next step that occurs naturally would then be the "Formalisation" of the relationship.
To put it to terms, it is something like being formally attached to someone else like how couples get together in a relationship., i.e. BGR.
If there is enough power in the relationship, there would be "Instututionalisation" of the relationship.
Something like marraige I suppose.
However over time, "Crystalisation" can come into the picture, where the thrill is no longer there, where the heart grows cold and affection dies down.
What happened here?
Did we lose our love and affection for what took away our breath in the first place?
The answer is "NO"!
We did not lose it, we just LEFT it.
And the good news is that we can find it back or return to it.
Chase away the coldness in one's heart and think back to the times when the affection came.
Ultimately, we are to always pursue a new revelation with whatever thing that caught our attention in order to protect ourselves from the dreaded "Crystalisation".
You know, this can apply to many areas in our lives. Be it a new top or a relationship. A toy once lost can still be found but can the same be said for a relationship? Perhaps but isn't it better not to take the chance and risk losing what matters to us?
Afterall, I do not want to live in regret all the time.
Anyway, I just want to share something that I thought was very meaningful. This was what I learnt Rev. Dr. A.R. Bernard. Awesome really.
Every Relationship begins with a "Revelation".
With that "Revelation" comes "Inspiration".
Which brings about something called the "Expulsive power of a new attraction".
Just in case you do not know what I am talking about, this expulsive power of a new attraction can refer to many things in our lives. For example, the excitement one gets after buying a new phone, or a new girl/ guy that one has taken a liking to.
What happens here is that you are very attracted to this new thing or object or whatever it is.
It is like what Rev. said, you are always looking at it, taking care of it etc.
The next step that occurs naturally would then be the "Formalisation" of the relationship.
To put it to terms, it is something like being formally attached to someone else like how couples get together in a relationship., i.e. BGR.
If there is enough power in the relationship, there would be "Instututionalisation" of the relationship.
Something like marraige I suppose.
However over time, "Crystalisation" can come into the picture, where the thrill is no longer there, where the heart grows cold and affection dies down.
What happened here?
Did we lose our love and affection for what took away our breath in the first place?
The answer is "NO"!
We did not lose it, we just LEFT it.
And the good news is that we can find it back or return to it.
Chase away the coldness in one's heart and think back to the times when the affection came.
Ultimately, we are to always pursue a new revelation with whatever thing that caught our attention in order to protect ourselves from the dreaded "Crystalisation".
You know, this can apply to many areas in our lives. Be it a new top or a relationship. A toy once lost can still be found but can the same be said for a relationship? Perhaps but isn't it better not to take the chance and risk losing what matters to us?
Afterall, I do not want to live in regret all the time.
We know life is hard, truth is hard, lies are hard, they are all hard to accept when they have been
found out. Well, nobody ever said life would be a bed of roses did they? So what amazes me? What do I really like? There are so many that can be listed down. Go figure. So what have you? Again to find this answer
you need to enter into your own world of reality and reflect upon it. Jus do not be afraid of what stares back at you. :O
Isn't it amazing - amzing how people change; the way they are, they things they like, the way of things. Like how I used to hate rain and just
felt that it was a complete waste of time. I've acquired to like it more ever since. You can say that rain gives me the sense of peace and tranquility. I guess people do change, their thereotical means and applications in life just goes on into a new direction, and see things in another perspective. I guess it is
all in the mind and all part of growing up. It really amazes me how these comes into action, from someone so pessimistic has changed his own view of things, and thus my friend is doing much better, being more optimisitc and not think of his old suicidal
thoughts, which were pretty daunting to be honest. Maybe we all need to see things in another light, another perspective and another new way in order to enable us to open up our minds, and make more new things, the new way it is. 